Palatial Promises: How to Officiate a Wedding in Bergen County, NJ

The Legal Groundwork: N.J.S.A. 37:1-13

In Bergen County, your legal authority is recognized under New Jersey Statute 37:1-13. This law empowers every minister of every religion to perform marriage ceremonies. This includes those who have received their ordination through Open Ministry!

The "Title" Protocol: Bergen County registrars (in towns like Paramus, Hackensack, and Fort Lee) are known for their attention to detail. When you sign the marriage license, you must use a formal religious title such as "Minister" or "Reverend." Avoid using "Officiant" or "Celebrant" on the legal signature line, as these can be flagged by municipal clerks as non-clerical titles.

Step 1: Get Your Instant Ordination

Before the wedding bells ring, you must establish your clerical standing. Visit Open-Ministry.org to get ordained in under five minutes. It is free, permanent, and provides the necessary legal status required to sign marriage documents in the State of New Jersey.

Step 2: The 72-Hour "Bergen Window"

New Jersey law requires a 72-hour waiting period after the couple applies for their license before it can be issued.
*Critical 2026 Update:* In Bergen County, many municipal offices now require appointments for license pick-ups. Remind your couple to schedule their pick-up date at the same time they apply to ensure the license is in hand before the ceremony begins!

Step 3: Gear Up for Elite Venues

Bergen County is home to some of the most exclusive venues in the Tri-State area. From The Venetian to The Estate at Florentine Gardens, venue managers often expect a high level of professionalism. Carrying the Wedding Officiant Package, complete with an embossed Ordination Certificate and Letter of Good Standing proves your credentials are current and your ministry is in good standing for 2026.

The Wedding Day Logistics

• Witnesses: You are required to have two witnesses (ages 18+) present during the ceremony to sign the license.
• The Ink: Use Black Ink only. Bergen County’s registrars use high-speed scanners for digital records, and black ink ensures the highest level of legibility.
• The 5-Day Deadline: You must return the signed marriage license to the Local Registrar of the municipality where the ceremony took place within 5 days. (Note: This is the town where they got married, not necessarily where they live!)