Getting started with Marriage Information for New Jersey
Before you plan to perform a wedding in New Jersey, it is important to understand the state's legal requirements.
To get started, check out the information provided below for getting ordained and registering as a wedding officiant in New Jersey.
If you have questions, please go to our helpful FAQ. For more information or support, please visit our contact us page.
Step 1: Become Ordained for New Jersey
To get ordained and become a minister to perform ceremonies in New Jersey, start by completing our ordination application.
Once you have completed the application for ordination you will be sent an email that confirms your ordination. Our ordinations for New Jersey are completely free, granted to you for life and can be completed in less than a day. More than half a million people just like you, have registered and received their license to perform weddings.
If you have not completed the application, you can get ordained for free and start your journey as an authorized minister in New Jersey with Open Ministry by using the button below!
Step 2: Contact The New Jersey County Clerk
Next, contact the office of your local marriage authority (typically your county clerk in New Jersey). Let them know that you are an ordained minister with Open Ministry in California, and ask them what information they require of you, to officiate a marriage in New Jersey.
Clerks and governing agencies may require you to present them with a physical copy of your ordination record to register we offer packages which include bundled items at a discount.
When speaking with the New Jersey county clerk it can be helpful to use the following phrases:
- I am an ordained minister with a church ministry in California.
- I would like to register as a wedding Officiant in your county to perform and solemnize weddings.
- What agency or department issues marriage licenses in your county and how may I contact them?
- I have my Letter of Good Standing and Ordination Credential as proof of my ministry and ordination for New Jersey.
- Do you require any additional documentation for me to register as a wedding officiant in New Jersey?
Step 3: Register with the New Jersey Clerk
After you've contacted the marriage authority in New Jersey, we recommend that you visit the bookstore to get your official credentials for your records, presentation or registration.
See New Jersey State Statutes for More specific Requirements
When registering as an officiant in New Jersey, you may be asked to display proof of your ordination to the New Jersey county clerk's office before they will accept the marriage license as having been solemnized. We generally advise ministers of New Jersey to get a Complete Membership Package for New Jersey which includes a Letter of Good Standing (the live signed and notarized physical copy of your good standing with our ministry) an Ordination Credential, Minister Wallet Card and much more.
Having physical copies of your credentials provides peace of mind for couples and others that you intend to marry. Additionally, we recommend you give yourself at least 4 weeks between the date of the wedding ceremony and your credential request to ensure that you receive all of your materials to register in time.
Please note, that any state or county can impose different requirements;
this may include other nominal fees and additional paperwork that may need to
be completed before the ceremony can take place.
It is important to note that some county clerks in New Jersey may require wedding
officiants to attach a statement which asserts some of the elements in the
marriage license upon submission, including the following:
- The time and location at which the wedding took place
- The names and places of residence of all official witnesses
- The religious organization in which the officiant is ordained
- The printed name and address of the officiant
When filling out the New Jersey marriage license, New Jersey state or the clerk may
request you use the title "Minister" or "Reverend".
The clerk may also require you enter your denomination, you can use
"Non-Denominational" or your practicing denomination. Failing to
state a denomination may result in rejection and could require a duplicate
marriage license.
Step 4: Perform the Ceremony
Before you perform a wedding in New Jersey, be sure that the couple has picked up their New Jersey state issued marriage license from the appropriate office. Once you have completed the steps listed, you are ready to perform the wedding!
Officiating a wedding in New Jersey can be a great and wonderful experience. Work with the couple to determine the proper ceremony format and any details they wish to have. For ideas and inspiration check out our sample ceremony scripts.
We recommend that new ministers who are going to be performing a wedding in New Jersey, or who have questions about the ceremony read over our Officiant Guide.
Step 5: Submit the New Jersey Marriage License
New Jersey marriage licenses are valid for a set number of days, and there may be a waiting period between when the couple receives the marriage license in New Jersey and when the ceremony may be legally performed in New Jersey.
This information is generally written on the license and must be followed to ensure the ceremony is recorded properly by New Jersey.
Please note that the signed marriage license for New Jersey must be returned to the issuing office in New Jersey state, before the time limit is reached. You can check the marriage license for the exact dates.
After the ceremony, you will need to return the completed and signed marriage license to the New Jersey states issuing office. This is essential for the marriage to be legally recorded. In most cases there is an address listed on the marriage license, use that to mail it back to the governing agency so that it can be recorded by the New Jersey.
If you have any questions about the returning of the license, contact the New Jersey agency that issued it for more information.
New Jersey State Minister & Marriage Statutes
37:1-13 Authorization to solemnize marriages and civil unions
Each judge of the United States Court of Appeals for the Third Circuit, each judge of a federal district court, United States magistrate, judge of a municipal court, judge of the Superior Court, judge of a tax court, retired judge of the Superior Court or Tax Court, or judge of the Superior Court or Tax Court, the former County Court, the former County Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court, or the former County District Court who has resigned in good standing, surrogate of any county, county clerk and any mayor or the deputy mayor when authorized by the mayor, or chairman of any township committee or village president of this State, and every minister of every religion, are hereby authorized to solemnize marriages or civil unions between such persons as may lawfully enter into the matrimonial relation or civil union; and every religious society, institution or organization in this State may join together in marriage or civil union such persons according to the rules and customs of the society, institution or organization.
Title 37: Marriages and Married Persons
Amended 1948, c.334, s.1; 1949, c.7, s.1; 1953, c.34, s.3; 1964, c.68; 1965, c.36; 1976, c.36; 1979, c.38; 1979, c.93; 1979, c.166, s.1; 1983, c.159; 1983, c.503; 1989, c.111; 1991, c.404; 1993, c.126; 1993, c.324; 1998, c.24; 2001, c.143; 2006, c.103, s.17.